“The Power of Play” – that’s the theme for the Downtown Dads
Spring Lunch Series. I’m very excited about this series for a number of
reasons. Here a just a few:
1) Dads tend
to play with their children more than moms. Moms may actually spend more
time with their youngsters than dads, but moms tend to be involved in
activities like feeding, bathing, changing, clothing and comforting. A mother’s
contribution is essential to helping a child feel safe and secure. And, of
course, many dads do these things too. It’s just that dads tend to bring
something to the equation.
2) Unstructured play, essential to healthy
child development, is disappearing from the American landscape. Children still play, but today many of
them engage in activities structured by a screen, designed to teach skills
of some sort, or organized with rules and limits overseen by adults. The days
of children making up their own games and activities with kids in the
neighborhood are waning. Even if
they wanted to do this, fewer opportunities exist.
3) Play is important for developing curiosity,
creativity, and imagination. According to Dr. David Elkind, author of The Power of Play, “These abilities are
like muscles. If you don’t use them, you lose them.” Many of today’s toys are
programmed to solicit a specific response or reaction from a child, limiting
their creativity and imagination. Toys with multiple uses, e.g., blocks, Legos,
etc. are good options because children use them in a variety of ways.
In the weeks to come, we’ll be exploring a number of ways
dads can playfully interact with their children. Our lunches, podcasts and blog
themes will all focus on this essential activity. As a way of introduction to
this topic, consider the following points from The Power of Play.
·
- Support and encourage your child’s own self-initiated learning activities.
- Join your child in his or her play.
- Take care in choosing your child’s toys.
- Encourage dramatic play, especially with preschoolers.
- Read to your child as a way to stimulate imagination and support healthy language learning.
- Play games with rules with your school-age child to help them learn social skills, develop strategies, take risks, and learn skills of observation and evaluation.
I hope you’ll join us in the important topic of play in one
or more ways over the next five weeks. It’s bound to be a lot of fun.
Jennifer Baker is the Founder and Director of Good Dads. She is the wife of one, mother of two and grandmother of eight. She can be reached for question or comment at jennifer@gooddads.com.
Jennifer Baker is the Founder and Director of Good Dads. She is the wife of one, mother of two and grandmother of eight. She can be reached for question or comment at jennifer@gooddads.com.