I love being
a Dad and I love doing things with my boys – from carving pumpkins at Halloween
to carving out time for their events. Whatever
my boys have wanted to do, well, within reason I was happy to do it with
them.
There was
the time the boys wanted to bleach their hair and I said, “Sure, what could it
hurt?” If you are a young Dad please
make a note: Doing what your kids wants
is not always what your wife wants.
The hair
product I purchased had a label that read, “Extreme Bleach.” The package called for a pinch of product and
about 10 minutes. I think we used a
handful of product and about thirty minutes.
It wasn’t
pretty. The boys threw me under the
bus. “Dad made us do it!” “What have you done?” My wife shrieked. I wanted to tell her, “It wasn’t all my
idea!” But I didn’t.
Then there was
the time they wanted to take up boxing. I boxed in high school. So I said, ““Sure,
what could it hurt?” If you are a young
Dad please make a note: If your kids get
hurt your wife is going to hurt you!
We bought
some used gloves at Play It Again Sports.
They laced them up, the fists started flying, and boys started
falling. My oldest son decked my middle
son. My middle son decked my youngest
son. They were still dazed and crying
when my wife got home. They threw me
under the bus. “Dad bought us boxing
gloves.” What have you done,” my wife
shrieked. I wanted to tell her “It wasn’t
all my idea?” But I didn’t.
Here’s the
bottom line: We are Dads. This is the greatest thing in the world. Do things with your kids. It doesn’t matter what it is so long as you
do it together.
I asked my
wife “What are the five coolest things I’ve done with the boys?” She didn’t say bleaching their hair or
teaching them to box. That surprised
me. But she did say, “The annual Polar
Bear Plunge on New Year’s Eve; learning to play Hockey with them and allowing
them to teach you to skate; taking them to climb the 14,000 foot mountains in
Colorado; taking them on hospital and home visits with me; and going to all
their events whatever they were and wherever they were.”
I love being
a Dad and I love doing stuff with my kids.
I want you to love being a Dad, too, and I want you to love doing things
with your kinds whatever it is. Create
your own list. Ask them what they like to do. It doesn’t matter what it is so
long as you are doing it together.
I am proud
of you. You are a Good Dad. If I can help in any way I would love to do
it together.
Jeff Sippy, a Dad-In-Training, is the father of three young men and the husband of Cindy. He enjoys sailing every chance that he gets. He is the senior pastor at Redeemer Lutheran in Springfield, MO and can be reached for question or comment at jsippy@rlcmail.org