There’s no doubt that Danny Gibbons is the very proud father
of three young, adult daughters. Just ask him and he’ll tell you about their
achievements, their college degrees and graduate degrees. He is understandably
pleased with what they accomplished and his ability to support them financially
because of his job with Prime, Inc.
Danny started driving with Prime almost 11 years ago and
then moved into the role of training and coaching new drivers. “I used to coach
my girls’ sports activities, so it was just a natural thing for me to help
aspiring drivers learn the skills they need to drive a big truck.” In addition
to training others, Danny has won a number of awards for his driving skill,
including three time “Instructor of the Year” and the “Million Mile Award” for safe driving.
Danny’s specialty or expertise lies in the area of driving a
flatbed truck. He said he was drawn to it because flatbeds usually go to more
rural or suburban areas, whereas “re-fers” (refrigerated trucks) are more typically
bound for big cities. He also enjoys the challenge of hauling different or
unique roles. One of his most unusual or challenging loads was a 35,000--40,000-pound
motor.
Danny knows a lot about 18-wheelers, but he also is pretty
savvy when it comes to kids. Over the years, he has developed a number of strategies
for staying connected with his daughters. One year one of his daughters
developed a map of the U.S. with one that displayed all the places he driving
for Prime with string and tacks. At the end of the year he was pleased to
receive the map in a more permanent form as a gift and tribute from her.
Of course, Danny, has also made it a practice to stay in
regular communication with his daughters. “Can you see the moon tonight?” he’s
asked. “What does it look like?” He said that looking at the same moon at the
same time helps a dad and child to feel closer, even when their hundreds of
miles apart. He also suggests having a “special song” so that every time a
child hears it, she remembers, “My dad is thinking about me.”
Prime Good Dads is all about helping fathers be more engaged
and connected with their kids “for the long haul.” Driving a long-haul truck
has its challenges and fathers obviously miss their families, but Danny Gibbons
is proof that a dad can stay “engaged” with his child even when he can’t be
present physically. Our hats are off to him and many other drivers like him.
Thanks Danny!
My dad is an awesome dad... But... Any advice on how to be a better son? I'm trying to get more involved with his gardening and its helped. But I'm not a great son to him, (my siblings are worse) and he's really the best dad... Thoughts?
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